1,000 Families Strong.

A residential community where adults with profound autism and their aging parents live together, with professional support filling in around the family.

Three families choosing each other. Choosing not to face this alone.

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๐ŸŒฑOur Story

Every parent of a child with profound autism lives with the same fear: what happens to my child when I am gone?

We are three founding families. Our adult children live with profound autism. We know the exhaustion, the love, and the constant background calculation of what happens next?

For more than a year we have studied the communities that exist, L'Arche, Camphill, Marbridge, Bittersweet Farms, First Place in Arizona, SpeciallyAble in California, and others. Many beautiful places. Almost all started by parents like us. Many did not survive their founders.

We started 1000 Villagers because the answer we wanted was not yet out there. We want to live with our adult children for as long as we are able. We want continuity of care that does not depend on us alone. We want a community of families that watches out for one another. And we want to leave a model that other families can use, because the need is enormous, and one community will not be enough.

It takes a village to raise a child, and even more so to keep that child safe, known, and held into adulthood.

๐ŸŒŸEight Guiding Principles

Every decision we make is tested against these. They are the radical idea that interdependence is strength, written down.

๐Ÿงญ Start with the person.
๐Ÿ˜๏ธ Live together, parents and adult children.
๐ŸŒ… Design for "what after us?"
๐Ÿก Choose domestic scale over institutional scale.
๐Ÿคฒ Watch out for one another.
๐ŸŒฟ Design around the senses.
๐ŸŒณ Stay open to the wider community.
โ™ป๏ธ Build to be replicated.
Read all eight, in detail โ†’

๐ŸกThe Model

A small village of paired homes around a common heart.

Each family has two connected homes, one for the parent, one for the adult child, sharing a garden and a threshold. The homes cluster around a central commons on a rural site that is walkable, sensory-considered, and open to its surrounding hamlet.

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Shared Living

Parents and adult children live in adjacent homes within one community. Together, but with each household's own dignity.

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Pooled Caregiving

Families bring their resources together. Professional support fills in around the family rather than replacing it. The community as a whole is the safety net.

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Cooperative Trust

Governance and ownership are structured so the community can outlast any single founder, designed to be replicated.

Read the full design details โ†’

๐Ÿ“The Math

The numbers behind the model, and why we believe it works.

$150K
Annual OPWDD funding per adult, in New York
10-12
Founding families to start
Self-directed
Families control the supports, in their own homes
Non-certified
Homes stay family-owned and family-governed

The community is funded through three streams: public funding (OPWDD, Medicaid waivers, Special Needs Trusts, rental subsidies) for the adult children's care; philanthropy covering capital, construction, accessible transport, respite, and staffing enhancements; and modest earned revenue from respite services that double as a staffing buffer.

To be clear about the wall between them: public funding pays only for the adult children's own services. The parents' homes, and the parents' own care, are entirely private and separate, never touched by public dollars.

See the full financial picture โ†’

๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘งFor Families

If you are reading this because you have a child with profound autism, you are not alone, and you are why we are building this.

Membership is a slow, mutual decision. We will not rush it, and you should not. You do not have to be ready to be in the conversation. Families come to us at very different stages, some with adult children already, some with teenagers, some still grieving a recent diagnosis. We welcome you wherever you are.

  1. Read our guiding principles and the model. If those land true, the rest follows.
  2. Reach out. Send us a note. Tell us a little about your family. We will listen.
  3. Meet us. A video call or an in-person visit, when timing permits.
  4. Decide together. Slowly, mutually, without pressure.

New here? Start with our free guide: When You're Gone, a planning guide for parents of adults with profound autism.

Read more for prospective families โ†’

๐ŸคSupport Us

Three ways to be part of what we are building. Only one of them involves money, and not yet.

1. Join the conversation. Add your name to our list. Your perspective will shape what we do. No money, no obligation. Join the family & interest list โ†’  or email hello@1000villagers.org.

2. Spread the word. Tell families, professionals, foundations, architects. Every connection moves us closer.

3. Donate, when we are ready. We are in active conversation with the Doug Flutie Jr. Foundation for Autism about fiscal sponsorship, the path that lets us receive tax-deductible donations responsibly while we build.

Coming soon, when fiscal sponsorship is in place:

Villager

$10/month
  • Periodic updates
  • Founders Wall listing
  • Village Gathering invitation

Founder

$100/month
  • Everything in Neighbor
  • Annual founder dinner
  • Recognition as a founding supporter

Payments will come online when our fiscal sponsorship is finalized. Until then, please join the conversation, your name on our list matters more than dollars right now.

Three ways to help, in detail โ†’

๐ŸŒณBe one of the early voices

Two community traditions we are starting now, ahead of the buildings.

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Founders Wall

A permanent recognition, physical when the village is built, online beforehand, for the families, friends, professionals, and partners who were with us from the start. If you are in the conversation today, you are eligible.

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Village Gathering

An annual event for everyone in the extended community, member families, supporters, advisors, peer projects. The first one will be modest. The hundredth, we hope, will not.

โ™ป๏ธA Blueprint for Other Families

Our name reflects the longer aim. If we can build one community that works, and document how, we intend to make it a template other parents can take to their own communities. The goal is not exclusivity. The goal is to make the answer to "what after us?" available to more families than just our own.

If you are a parent considering this for your own region, please reach out. We will share what we have learned.

๐Ÿ“ฌ Get in Touch

We answer every message personally.

hello@1000villagers.org