Frequently Asked Questions

The questions families, funders, and friends most often ask.

If your question is not below, please ask. We answer every email personally, hello@1000villagers.org.

About the people we serve

Who is 1000 Villagers for?

The community is designed for adults (18+) with profound autism or comparable significant developmental disabilities, together with their parents or designated family members. We are particularly oriented to families whose adult children need intensive daily support and for whom standard independent-living models are not realistic.

What do you mean by "profound autism"?

We use "profound autism" to describe people on the autism spectrum who require substantial daily support, often have limited or no spoken communication, and may have co-occurring intellectual disability. We are deliberate about this language because the broader autism field increasingly serves more independent adults, leaving families like ours without options. Our community is shaped around the needs of those most often left behind.

What if my child has a different disability, Down syndrome, cerebral palsy, intellectual disability, multiple disabilities?

The model is built around the principles, not the diagnosis. Families whose adult children have other significant developmental disabilities may find that the model fits, please reach out. Some details (regulatory funding paths, specific support staff, sensory design choices) will vary, and we will be honest with you about what we know and what we don't.

Why include parents in the community?

Because the existing options separate them, and the separation is the wound. Most residential programs for adults with profound autism step in only when a parent dies or can no longer cope, often at a moment of crisis. By designing for parents and adult children to live together, we close the cliff. Continuity of relationship is itself a clinical good.

About the project

Where will 1000 Villagers be?

The community is planned for upstate New York. A small pilot may begin on land already owned by a founding family in Earlville, NY, with additional homes added as the founding village takes shape. We are flexible on the final site; we are not flexible on the model.

When will it open?

Honestly: we don't know yet. We are at the earliest stages, site, structure, funding, partners. A realistic horizon for a small pilot is two to three years; the founding village is five-plus years away. We will not promise dates we cannot keep.

How is this different from a group home?

Group homes are typically state-certified residences where staff support 4 to 6 adults under the rules of the certifying agency. They serve a vital function and many do it well, but they do not include parents, and certification hands the rule-making to the state. 1000 Villagers is different on both counts: parents live alongside their adult children, and our homes stay non-certified and family-controlled. Each family self-directs their own child's publicly funded supports rather than handing that authority over. We use public funding for the adult children's care while privately funding the parents' homes.

How is this different from L'Arche, Camphill, or Marbridge?

L'Arche and Camphill are wonderful life-sharing communities where people with and without disabilities live together as equal partners. They generally serve adults whose families are no longer in the picture. Marbridge offers cradle-to-grave care, often at significant scale. 1000 Villagers is built for families to stay together, at smaller scale. Same humane impulse, applied at a different stage of life.

How is this different from SpeciallyAble in California?

SpeciallyAble is our closest peer. They are building a multi-generational co-housing community of twenty families in Oakley, CA, with paired homes for parents and adult children, almost the same model. We have learned a great deal from their public materials and we remain in informal contact with founders of similar projects elsewhere. The world needs more than one of these.

About money and structure

How is this funded?

Three streams: public funding (New York's OPWDD, Medicaid waivers, Special Needs Trusts, rental subsidies) flowing through rental income; philanthropy covering capital, construction, and gap items; and modest earned revenue from respite services. Public dollars pay only for each adult child's own self-directed supports and community participation, never for a parent's housing or care. Read more in The Math.

What does it cost a family to participate?

Specifics are being worked out with our founding families and our legal and financial advisors. In broad strokes: public funding covers most of the adult-child portion; families contribute to capital and to the parents' residences, sized to what they can do. We are committed to keeping participation accessible and will discuss specifics with each interested family individually, in confidence.

Are donations tax-deductible?

Not yet. We are in active conversation with the Doug Flutie Jr. Foundation for Autism about fiscal sponsorship, the arrangement that would allow us to receive tax-deductible donations through them. When that is in place, this page will say so plainly. Until then, we are not accepting donations.

What is the legal structure?

One idea anchors it: funding follows the person, not the building. Public support attaches to each adult child and can be delivered in a home the family controls, so the homes need not become state-certified facilities. We anticipate a small family of entities, each with one job: a foundation that holds the community's endowment and is built to outlast the founders; a family-governed service organization (family-controlled, not a state-certified residence) that delivers the adult children's self-directed supports; and a housing entity that owns the residences, where parents live as tenants too. Keeping them separate keeps rent, care, and charitable gifts from getting tangled. We are working through the details with legal counsel.

About living here

What happens if a parent passes away while the adult child is living in the community?

The adult child stays. No resident is displaced because of a death in the family. The community continues to be home, with continuity of care and the support of the other families.

What happens if an adult resident has serious behavioral issues?

No resident is removed for difficult behavior. Behavior is a form of communication, particularly for people with profound autism, and the right response is more support, not removal. We are designing the community, the staff, and the physical environment so that residents can be safely supported through difficult times. The model is not built for the easy days.

Can I visit or tour?

Not yet, there is nothing built to tour. As the pilot site develops, we will host site visits for interested families. In the meantime, we are happy to meet by video call or in person to talk through the model.

How can I help if I'm not a parent of a child with autism?

You can join the conversation, spread the word, and, when we are ready, donate. Every name on our list is evidence to foundations and state agencies that the need is real and the community is real. Read more on our Support page.

Still have questions?

Email us at hello@1000villagers.org. We read everything and we will get back to you.